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Menopause and sex drive
For women’s, aging doesn’t comes just with grey hairs and few wrinkles, along with them it brings menopause and sexual problems related with it. Our anatomy, sexual functions as well as sexual behaviors and responses to others keep fluctuating during menopause phase. Menopause and peri-menopause are termed as one of the hardest phases of a women’s life, as sometimes other areas of our life also starts getting affected with this. However, we should try to take it just as natural phenomena of our body where hormones are changing its symptoms viz. mood rolling, insomnia etc which makes us to feel low and restless and ultimately leads to lower interest in sexual pleasure. More frequently women complain that after menopause they are not easily aroused or even taping and stroking does not do the magic for them. As estrogen level decreases after menopause this results in reduction of the blood supply to the vaginal part which does not gets lubricated properly and thus dryness makes intercourse tough.
Symptoms of loss of sexual drive- Menopause is the phase when our ovaries are creating less female hormones called estrogen and progestrogen causing physical and psychological changes. Though body is undergoing changes, adjustment to this is not so easy. Common symptoms like fatigue, sudden weight loss or weight gain, sleep irregularity could be seen besides vaginal dryness and thinness of vagina. Reduction in sex drive which is also called as loss of female libido is the other symptom. Frustration and depression could come about escorting the way for the worthlessness problem. Women begin to think that they are now old and useless; even they feel deprived of womanhood. This causes mental trauma and stress.
Effect of menopause on sexual drive
• In our society man are thought to be competent sex partners, productive creatures, even if they are in their 50’s but at the same age woman are thought-out to be at the edge of sexual life. Thus, the 1st effect can be clearly seen as the drift in societal view towards this.
• Due to menopause pleasure in intercourse diminishes, often even having intercourse doesn’t seems necessary to them. In addition, penetration becomes painful moment; reaching climax seems hard, satisfactory orgasm could not happen resulting in more misery.
• Dryness in vagina could also be the effect of menopause. As it results in lower estrogen flow, making vaginal lining lean. So penetration hurts.
Treatment
The foremost step in rejuvenating your sexual life is in feeling physically and emotionally healthier. When you stop treating yourself as useless and futile, half of the war is over. Other than that here are few quick tips to direct you towards sexual fantasies and ultimately to sexual drive.
• Start adventuring the sex shop, as this could be a pleasurable activity for you, also you may get amazed to know how many sexual phenomenon you could not get to do in your adolescent years.
• Sex books, or best to say, go through the porn books or videos, if you don’t feel comfortable to glance through them in public, take the help of net to collect the content through the porn sites. This may arouse your sexual feelings.
• Try to work out some new techniques with your partner or if you wish try to figure out it alone. Something unusual, still pleasurable, new and exciting can help you.
• Observe what new thing arouse you, try doing them often by having sex chat, as that can also be a helping hand in searching this new arena of sexual life.
• And most important talk to your partner about the physical and emotional changes you are going through. This will help you boost up your morale and will also lead to less relationship trauma mainly caused due to low sex drive, thus upsetting the other partner involved.
• You and your partner may also consult a sexologist, if you wish, or go through net to search the solution to your problems.
• Though drugs are not thought to be very helpful in this , still there are few of them which you could look to :
Moisturizers are available in markets to be used in your vaginal area so that the dryness problem could be overcome during the sexual intercourse.
For vaginal dryness, vaginal estrogen named products are present in the form of cream, rings, or pills, you can use it as per your comfort.
Conclusion
As per the social norms throughout our life we consider beauty and sexuality associated with a lady. We forget to realize that life is much more than that and thus the problem of feeling worst during, and after menopause occurs making our life look like hell. It’s a wonderful gift to have a life of woman; moreover self image and sexuality get enhanced throughout life. You should try to enjoy and evaluate the new phase of your life. A bit of amusement, surprise along with heart full of laughter and frankness to new and evolving thoughts can make your entry in this great phase of your life more enjoyable.
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